Oh for peet's sake. Just because you didn't see it or witness it or live it personally, doesn't mean it didn't happen. However, you can choose to live in a box if you'd like, but when people experience real life, hard times, and other life altering moments, these are their experiences in which we have no say over what they are, who they have become, nor it does not give you the right to impede your opinions of their life onto them or any others. Some people choose to live in a box, it's safe for them. It is too painful for them to see the truth nor admit to the truth. The moment someone speaks of the truth, they whip out their firing guns to prove what? That the truth should be kept bottled up because it's painful to hear and acknowledge?
Some people are fighting a battle where there will never be a winning side. What is done is done, the past can't be changed, it's time to move forward, let people heal. To keep wallowing in the past, it solves nothing. You will never heal. For all the pain that that little person inside suffered, they deserve peace and quiet, not some ignorant rambling of what they think happened to that person. You can very well live in the same household and one child experience abuse while the other doesn't. I have seen it, I have heard of it, not just by this one person, but by several. That's what makes a family secret a secret. You might have gotten glimpses of some shady stuff going on, but you can't dismiss it when not just one but several people speak up about it in that family. What so now, all of them are liars or are they a family on the opposite end of the delusion from where you sit? Hmmm... Now let's think logic here. Go to school, or do some online research of abuse in families, and then come back and argue with me about what real knowledge you learned. Abuse in families are very deep, they run through layers of the psychological, physical, emotional, and mental planes. For every action you take, you don't realize how much you show your crazy side to the world. What real justification do you actually have in the taking the steps to doing some of the outlandish obsessive behaviors you have done and probably will continue to do? None, absolutely none.
